Once upon a time all little girls got a new bonnet for Easter and her mother would get a new hat for Easter as well. At last nights Good Friday service I could count on one hand the number of women wearing a hat among hundreds in attendance. What a shame. I suppose it all started when women were no longer required to cover their heads when entering a church. Since then it has been a gradual decline in the number of women wearing hats for Easter or any other special occasion. Again, what a shame.
I think what women don’t realize is that by putting on a hat you aren’t just doing it for the sake of style but it helps to put you in the right frame of mind. If wearing a hat for church it can help put you in a state of reverence just as easily as putting you in a festive mood if wearing the hat to a cocktail party or the Kentucky Derby.
If you’re not used to wearing a hat here are a couple tips to keep in mind when shopping for a hat:
- Choose a conservative color. Choosing a neon blue or fire engine red colored hat will only keep drawing your eye, and every else’s, to your hat.
- Find the appropriate brim size. If you’re barely five feet tall and 100 pounds a big 4″ or 5″ brimmed hat will look like you’re standing under an umbrella.
- Get a proper fit. Nothing will stop you from wearing a hat again faster than a hat that’s too small or too big. If it’s not comfortable you won’t wear it again.
One of the best selling women’s hats this season has been the Betmar Nile as shown here:

Finally, one of the most important things to remember is for you to wear the hat and not let the hat wear you. What does this mean? If you wear the hat with confidence and like it’s part of you it will look completely natural. On the other hand, if you are walking around like you are trying to balance a plate on your head people will know it.
Get in the right frame of mind and get a hat on.
Peace to you this Easter season.
Aaron